What It Means to Be Born in 1989

Share what you know about the year you were born.

β€œSome years don’t just passβ€”they reshape the world we grow into.”

I was born in 1989, a year that didn’t whisper changeβ€”it announced it.
I didn’t know it then, of course. I arrived quietly, unaware that the world around me was shifting in ways that history would later underline in bold. While I learned to breathe, the world was learning to break old walls and imagine new possibilities.
1989 is often remembered as a year of transformation.
The Berlin Wall fell, not just as bricks and concrete, but as an ideaβ€”that division could be challenged, that long-standing barriers weren’t permanent after all. Across the globe, people were questioning systems, voices were growing louder, and change felt inevitable.
Technology, too, was taking its first confident steps. The foundations of the digital world were being laidβ€”slowly, imperfectly, but with intention. The internet was still a quiet idea then, nowhere near the constant presence it is today. Life moved at a human pace. Letters mattered. Waiting was normal.
Culturally, it was a time before speed took over everything.
Photos were physical. Music came on tapes. News arrived with a delay. And somehow, that slowness gave moments room to settle.
Knowing I was born in 1989 feels symbolic now.
A year of endings and beginnings.
A year that proved change doesn’t always arrive gentlyβ€”but it does arrive.
I like to think that some of that year’s spirit followed me into lifeβ€”the quiet adaptability, the ability to stand between the old and the new, the comfort with transition. Growing up alongside a rapidly changing world taught me flexibility before I even had words for it.
I wasn’t just born in a year.
I was born into a turning point.
And maybe that’s why I’ve learned to accept changeβ€”not as something to fear, but as something that shapes us, slowly and deeply, over time.


2 responses to “What It Means to Be Born in 1989”

  1. S.M. Ulbrich avatar

    Great post! I wasn’t born in 1989, but my adopted son was. He actually came into my foster home at 5 months of age, never having left the hospital NICU department. When I walked in and first saw him, I realized that he’s already mine. By then, I’d fostered almost 100 infants and children, and had no interest in adopting more children. You see, I already had 5 at home, waiting for Mommy to bring home our next foster baby. But all that went out the window, so to speak, when I met Jason. Firstly, he was born on MY birthday, New Year’s Eve. And his name! Oh, his birth mom, who by then had given birth to 12 babies, none of which went home with her. But she named him. And the name made my heart tumble. When my eldest was first born, we had a name picked out for him. When he was born, the name just simply didn’t seem to fit, so, we named him something totally different. When I walked in to see this new foster baby, the name on his card read the very same name as our initial name choice! If we’d have continued with that name, we would’ve had 2 boys as Jason Scott! There were several other indications that he was supposed to be ours, but they’re too sacred to mention. Now, this guy is turning 36 in a few days! Thanks for allowing me to share this precious memory.

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    1. Uncommon Pen avatar

      Thank you so much for sharing this deeply moving story. Some connections feel written long before we understand them, and your journey with Jason truly reflects that kind of quiet destiny. Stories like yours remind us that love often finds us in the most unexpected ways. I’m grateful you felt comfortable sharing such a precious memory here.

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